Q: Iâ€™m a 34-year-old right feminine. I will be excessively overweight and have now been for many of my entire life. We have never ever dated. Iâ€™ve been on a few dates, and just once I asked the man down. From reading your columns and publications, i know that some guys are drawn to fat ladies. But since I never received any genuine intimate attention as a teen/20something, we donâ€™t learn how to cope with males in a sexual method or perhaps in an easy method that will grow into a relationship.